Stop Feeling Like You’re Failing Others Because of ADHD

Learn how to handle the misunderstandings, let go of the guilt, and break free from the constant ‘sorrys’ so that the best version of you can show up for those that matter most.

Meet William David Eidt, MA, LPC (AR/OK), LPCC (MN): A Partner in Your ADHD Journey

Hi there! I’m David.  I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor in Arkansas and Oklahoma and a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor in Minnesota.  I go by my middle name, and my pronouns are he/him. For the past 2 decades, I’ve been helping people with ADHD stop feeling misunderstood about their symptoms and endlessly apologizing for missed tasks or mistakes so they can rebuild trust, restore self-respect, and create a balanced, connected partnership where both partners feel seen and valued.   

ADHD can create unique challenges in relationships, often amplifying emotions, creating misunderstandings, and triggering defensiveness. But there is hope—things can absolutely improve.

The Hidden Burden of ADHD: Why It’s More Than Just Disorganization

By the age of 10, kids with ADHD have often received 20,000 more negative messages and critiques than their peers without ADHD. To cope, many of them learn to de-prioritize their needs, mask their symptoms, and develop a harsh inner voice that drives them to meet others' expectations. While this strategy may help them get through the day, it often leaves them depleted by the time they’re home—when their partner needs them the most.

This exhaustion amplifies ADHD symptoms like irritability, disorganization, forgetfulness, procrastination.  This can create tension, negativity, and resentment in your relationship. When you check out due to exhaustion, your partner is having to shoulder more of the household duties and it can quickly turn into more of a parent-child dynamic than a warm, shared partnership. This can make it all too easy for a person with ADHD to react impulsively and spark fights that neither of you really intended to happen Or, you may find that small disagreements quickly escalate, leaving you both feeling emotionally exhausted and disconnected.

The result? A cycle of conflict, frustration, and distance, despite how much you care.  ADHD isn’t just about being distracted or impulsive; it’s about the long-term emotional impact that often goes unnoticed. 

Here’s the truth: you deserve a relationship where you both feel heard, respected, and understood, without ADHD running the show. And that’s exactly what we’ll work toward together.

Let me tell you how we can make this happen...

Challenges You’re Facing

  • Constant misunderstandings because your partner thinks you’re not listening or you don’t care, even though you do.

  • Feeling like a burden because you can’t keep up with basic tasks and responsibilities, and it feels like you’re failing in your relationship.

  • Guilt and shame from missing deadlines, losing things, or forgetting important dates, no matter how hard you try to stay on top of it.

  • Worrying your partner’s losing patience and growing frustrated with your ADHD, leaving you scared they might give up on you.

  • Feeling overwhelmed because no matter what systems you try to put in place, you still feel disorganized and like you’re letting your partner down.

How does this work?

This 90-day program isn’t about quick fixes or pretending ADHD isn't part of your reality—it's about finding ways to work with it, rather than against it. It's about addressing the exhaustion that comes from always apologizing, the disarray that leaves you feeling overwhelmed, and the constant misunderstanding that breaks trust.

Each week, we take on the core challenges of living with ADHD in real, practical, and emotionally honest ways. Together, we’ll tackle what it means to feel unheard and misunderstood by those you love, to struggle under expectations that leave you burned out, and to repair the connections that have suffered because of forgetfulness, procrastination, and defensiveness.

We’ll be using a mix of proven strategies to address the heart of what’s affecting you and your relationships:

  • Weekly Live Sessions: We meet weekly to go deep into what’s not working—how to move from feeling ashamed of missed tasks to building trust again.

  • Action Steps & Tools: Each week comes with actionable steps to rebuild connection—like learning how to communicate honestly about ADHD's impact without making excuses or feeling inadequate.

Over the next 90 days, you’ll learn how to:

  • Stop feeling like you're always falling short and start recognizing what you bring to your relationships.

  • Break the cycle of defensiveness and avoidance that keeps you and your partner disconnected.

  • Manage misunderstandings, emotional overwhelm, and the guilt that follows you like a shadow.

And, most importantly, you’ll discover how to rebuild trust—not with empty words, but through actions that show you care and are willing to do the work to grow closer again.

This program is about moving forward—not by ignoring ADHD, but by understanding it, managing it, and building a partnership where both of you feel seen, valued, and understood. It's time to turn those constant apologies into real change.

  • It all begins with an idea. Maybe you want to launch a business. Maybe you want to turn a hobby into something more.

  • It all begins with an idea. Maybe you want to launch a business. Maybe you want to turn a hobby into something more.

  • It all begins with an idea. Maybe you want to launch a business. Maybe you want to turn a hobby into something more.

If you’re ready to stop feeling like your ADHD is ruining your relationship and start rebuilding trust and understanding, click the button to enroll now. Spaces are limited, so don't wait to take control of your relationship and your peace of mind